John 19:25b-27

‘Woman, here is your son… Here is your mother.’

At Christmas I was given a book called ‘Born a Crime’. It is by the South African comedian, Trevor Noah, who is now the host of ‘The Daily Show’ – a late night talk and news satire show. He was born to a single mother and much of the book (at least as far as I’ve read so far) is about his relationship with his mother. He writes with great humour about how difficult a child he was and about how she used to admonish him. What is clear is that she nurtured in him the importance of pushing back and challenging the rules, particularly when the rules didn’t make sense. A useful code of behaviour when growing up in Apartheid. Of course that also meant he pushed back and challenged her. But I think there is something good when one’s children feel safe enough and able to challenge their own parents.

This week was International Women’s Day. It was also the day when Sarah Mullally officially became Bishop of London as her election was confirmed. A significant milestone in the flourishing of all in the church of England. This year is also 100 years after the triumph of women’s suffrage in this country, which is something very much worth celebrating. But a century on and perhaps the more striking thing is
the many ways in which women’s rights are still not where they should be. This past year has highlighted many ways in which universal suffrage was only the first step. Whether it is the #meto movement, the now annual women’s marches around which started at the time of President Trump’s inauguration just over a year ago. The campaign for equal pay. The attacks made against our Prime Minister because she didn’t have any children of her own. The revelations and response to stories of sexual harassment in Hollywood, in the hallways of Westminster and amongst international charities, and sadly in the church as well – only to name a few.

And then by coincidence Mothering Sunday is only 3 days later. Coincidence because International Women’s Day is always the 8th March, Mothering Sunday moves around with Easter. For all the Hallmark card poems and the wonderfully positive Mothers Day sentiments – Mothering Sunday is altogether more complex than a simple celebration of our moms. Even in the reading from the first book of Samuel we had this morning we hear of the story of Hannah, a woman who has longed for a child and then when she receives him, feels the only thing she can do is give her son to the Lord, sending him to live with Eli from the moment he is weened. It is a reminder today of the many women who don’t want children, who can’t have them, or who have been unable to care for their own children and needed to rely on others.

Much like the imagery of God as Father can be difficult for those whose own experience of fathers doesn’t reflect the God revealed to us by the loving compassion of Christ. Those whose relationships with their own mothers, or with the possibility of becoming or not becoming a mother (desired or not), or with their own experience of motherhood, might understandably find it difficult to relate to the idealistic celebration of Mothers Day. Mothering Sunday is meant to be something different. Not just a celebration of motherhood in all the variety of ways that it works itself out. But a time to remember the calling we all have to mother one another as the church. Historically the New Testament reading chosen for the fourth Sunday of Lent had Paul describing Jerusalem as mother to us all – a role which the church, as an earthly manifestation of the Kingdom of God, is meant to continue.

Today’s Gospel is sometimes described as the Birth of the Church. John, the disciple that Jesus loved, is told to receive Mary as his adopted mother and Mary is to accept John as her adopted Son. It is an image we look at every week in our rood cross. Jesus, in this moment of great personal suffering, looks with compassion on his mother and his friend and asks them to care for each other as family. And we are all called to do so as brothers and sisters in Christ. In Canada there was a programme called Block parents. A Block in this case referring to the block of houses encircled by a rectangle of streets. Block parents would be trained and vetted by a centralised organisation so that if a child felt unsafe or needed help, they knew they could go and knock on the door of a block parent in their block and get the support or help they needed. Church – that is the people – should be the place we all feel we can turn when we are in most need of a listening ear and an open heart. I remember when Princess Diana died and the following Sunday there were reports of the royal family all going to church together. Commentators and the public was questioning why they should be made to go to church at such a time. But Church should be the sort of place where we want to turn at those moments when we need to find compassion.

Paul’s letter to the Colossians outlines this vocation of the church beautifully, the followers of Christ – the community of the faithful, should clothe themselves with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness and patience. We should practice forgiveness and love, we should teach and admonish with wisdom, and let the peace of Christ rule in our hearts. And it is by these very principles, in our role as mother church that we should challenge the ways in which our society maintains unfair and unequal treatment of women.

So today, as we receive flowers at the end of the service, we celebrate all those who have cared for us, nurtured us, encouraged us, enabled us, supported us. Whether they were our own mothers or not. And we also re-commit ourselves to care for those around us,
to be compassionate and kind, to have humility and patience, to be forgiving and loving and to teach and admonish. To make this place,
this community,  a home that any can turn to find the love of God for them, an open table and a caring and honest conversation.

The Reverend Robin Sims-Williams

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Privacy Notice – General

Your personal data – what is it?

“Personal data” is any information about a living individual which allows them to be identified from that data (for example a name, photographs, videos, email address, or address). Identification can be by the information alone or in conjunction with any other information. The processing of personal data is governed by the General Data Protection Regulation 2016/679 (GDPR) and other legislation relating to personal data and rights such as the Human Rights Act 1998.

Who are we?

This Privacy Notice is provided to you by the Parochial Church Council (PCC) of All Saints’ Child’s Hill which is the data controller for your data.

The Church of England is made up of a number of different organisations and office-holders who work together to deliver the Church’s mission in each community. The PCC works together with:

  • the incumbent of the parish (that is, our priest-in-charge);
  • the bishops of the Diocese of London; and
  • the London Diocesan Fund, which is responsible for the financial and administrative
    arrangements for the Diocese of London.

As the Church is made up of all of these persons and organisations working together, we may need to share personal data we hold with them so that they can carry out their responsibilities to the Church and our community. The organisations referred to above are joint data controllers. This means we are all responsible to you for how we process your data.

Each of the data controllers have their own tasks within the Church and a description of what data is processed and for what purpose is set out in this Privacy Notice. This Privacy Notice is sent to you by the PCC on our own behalf and on behalf of each of these data controllers. In the rest of this Privacy Notice, we use the word “we” to refer to each data controller, as appropriate.

What data do the data controllers listed above process?

They will process some or all of the following where necessary to perform their tasks:

  • Names, titles, and aliases, photographs;
  • Contact details such as telephone numbers, addresses, and email addresses;
  • Where they are relevant to our mission, or where you provide them to us, we may process
    demographic information such as gender, age, date of birth, marital status, nationality, education/work histories, academic/professional qualifications, hobbies, family composition, and dependants;
  • Where you make donations or pay for activities such as use of a church hall, financial identifiers such as bank account numbers, payment card numbers, payment/transaction identifiers, policy numbers, and claim numbers;
  • The data we process is likely to constitute sensitive personal data because, as a church, the fact that we process your data at all may be suggestive of your religious beliefs. Where you provide this information, we may also process other categories of sensitive personal data: racial or ethnic origin, sex life, mental and physical health, details of injuries, medication/treatment received, political beliefs, labour union affiliation, genetic data, biometric data, data concerning sexual orientation and criminal records, fines and other similar judicial records.

How do we process your personal data?

The data controllers will comply with their legal obligations to keep personal data up to date; to store and destroy it securely; to not collect or retain excessive amounts of data; to keep personal data secure, and to protect personal data from loss, misuse, unauthorised access and disclosure and to ensure that appropriate technical measures are in place to protect personal data.

We use your personal data for some or all of the following purposes:

  • To enable us to meet all legal and statutory obligations (which include maintaining and publishing our electoral roll in accordance with the Church Representation Rules);
  • To carry out comprehensive safeguarding procedures (including due diligence and complaints handling) in accordance with best safeguarding practice from time to time with the aim of ensuring that all children and adults-at-risk are provided with safe environments;
  • To minister to you and provide you with pastoral and spiritual care (such as visiting you when you are gravely ill or bereaved) and to organise and perform ecclesiastical services for you, such as baptisms, confirmations, weddings and funerals;
  • To deliver the Church’s mission to our community, and to carry out any other voluntary or charitable activities for the benefit of the public as provided for in the constitution and statutory framework of each data controller;
  • To administer the parish, deanery, archdeaconry and diocesan membership records;
  • To fundraise and promote the interests of the Church and charity;
  • To maintain our own accounts and records;
  • To process a donation that you have made (including Gift Aid information);
  • To seek your views or comments;
  • To notify you of changes to our services, events and role holders;
  • To send you communications which you have requested and that may be of interest to you. These may include information about campaigns, appeals, other fundraising activities;
  • To process a grant or application for a role;
  • To enable us to provide a voluntary service for the benefit of the public in a particular geographical
    area as specified in our constitution;
  • Our processing also includes the use of automated systems when you visit our website including cookies to help improve your experience when browsing our website and personal identifiers from your browsing history to enable us to assess the popularity of the webpages on our website, further information about our use of cookies is available on our website (https://www.allsaintschildshill.com/cookie-policy/)
  • Our processing also includes the use of CCTV systems for the prevention and prosecution of crime.

What is the legal basis for processing your personal data?

Most of our data is processed because it is necessary for our legitimate interests, or the legitimate interests of a third party (such as another organisation in the Church of England). An example of this would be our safeguarding work to protect children and adults at risk. We will always take into account your interests, rights and freedoms.

Some of our processing is necessary for compliance with a legal obligation. For example, we are required by the Church Representation Rules to administer and publish the electoral roll, and under Canon Law to announce forthcoming weddings by means of the publication of banns.

We may also process data if it is necessary for the performance of a contract with you, or to take steps to enter into a contract. An example of this would be processing your data in connection with the hire of church facilities.

Religious organisations are also permitted to process information about your religious beliefs to administer membership or contact details.

Where your information is used other than in accordance with one of these legal bases, we will first obtain your consent to that use.

Sharing your personal data

Your personal data will be treated as strictly confidential. It will only be shared with third parties where it is necessary for the performance of our tasks or where you first give us your prior consent. It is likely that we will need to share your data with some or all of the following (but only where necessary):

  • The appropriate bodies of the Church of England including the other data controllers;
  • Our agents, servants and contractors. For example, we may ask a commercial provider to send out newsletters on our behalf, or to maintain our database software;
  • Other clergy or lay persons nominated or licensed by the bishops of the Diocese of London to support the mission of the Church in our parish. For example, our clergy are supported by our area dean and archdeacon, who may provide confidential mentoring and pastoral support. Assistant or temporary ministers, including curates, deacons, licensed lay ministers, commissioned lay ministers or persons with Bishop’s Permissions may participate in our mission in support of our regular clergy;
  • Other persons or organisations operating within the Diocese of London including, where relevant, the London Diocesan Board for Schools and Subsidiary Bodies;
  • On occasion, other churches with which we are carrying out joint events or activities.

How long do we keep your personal data?

We will keep some records permanently if we are legally required to do so. We may keep some other records for an extended period of time. For example, it is current best practice to keep financial records for a minimum period of 7 years to support HMRC audits. In general, we will endeavour to keep data only for as long as we need it. This means that we may delete it when it is no longer needed.

Your rights and your personal data

You have the following rights with respect to your personal data:

When exercising any of the rights listed below, in order to process your request, we may need to verify your identity for your security. In such cases we will need you to respond with proof of your identity before you can exercise these rights.

  1. The right to access information we hold on you
    • At any point you can contact us to request the information we hold on you as well as why we have that information, who has access to the information and where we obtained the
      information from. Once we have received your request we will respond within one month.
    • There are no fees or charges for the first request but additional requests for the same data may be subject to an administrative fee .
  1. The right to correct and update the information we hold on you
    • If the data we hold on you is out of date, incomplete or incorrect, you can inform us and your data will be updated.
  1. The right to have your information erased
    • If you feel that we should no longer be using your data or that we are illegally using your data, you can request that we erase the data we hold.
    • When we receive your request we will confirm whether the data has been deleted or the reason why it cannot be deleted (for example because we need it for our legitimate interests or regulatory purpose(s)).
  1. The right to object to processing of your data
    • You have the right to request that we stop processing your data. Upon receiving the request we will contact you and let you know if we are able to comply or if we have legitimate grounds to continue to process your data. Even after you exercise your right to object, we may continue to hold your data to comply with your other rights or to bring or defend legal claims.
  1. The right to data portability
    • You have the right to request that we transfer some of your data to another controller. We will comply with your request, where it is feasible to do so, within one month of receiving your request.
  1. The right to withdraw your consent to the processing at any time for any processing of data to which consent was sought.
    • You can withdraw your consent easily by telephone, email, or by post (see Contact Details below).
  1. The right to object to the processing of personal data where applicable.
  2. The right to lodge a complaint with the Information Commissioner’s Office.

Transfer of Data Abroad

Any electronic personal data transferred to countries or territories outside the EU will only be placed on systems complying with measures giving equivalent protection of personal rights either through international agreements or contracts approved by the European Union. Our website is also accessible from overseas so on occasion some personal data (for example in a newsletter) may be accessed from overseas.

Further processing

If we wish to use your personal data for a new purpose, not covered by this Notice, then we will provide you with a new notice explaining this new use prior to commencing the processing and setting out the relevant purposes and processing conditions. Where and whenever necessary, we will seek your prior consent to the new processing.

Contact Details

Please contact us if you have any questions about this Privacy Notice or the information we hold about you or to exercise all relevant rights, queries or complaints at:

The Data Controller,
All Saints’ Church
Church Walk, Child’s Hill
London, NW2 2TJ
Email: [email protected]

You can contact the Information Commissioners Office on 0303 123 1113 or via email https://ico.org.uk/global/contact-us/email/ or at the Information Commissioner’s Office, Wycliffe House, Water Lane, Wilmslow, Cheshire SK9 5AF.

If you have any question regarding our privacy policy, please contact us.